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  • WyvernCoWyvernCo Member

    I only tried to get the attack sale shutdown. Reminder: I had the opportunity to get his whole paypal pulled and I didn't.

    Thanked by 1forest
  • @alligatoraxe said:
    Tbh, if wyvern had thicker skin, like forest, we wouldn't be here and this would not have escalated

    We would've also not been here if jar wasn't so hot headed and could've just stayed silent or not written that one sentence.

    I would be pretty pissed too if someone called me a psycho and had a whole deal about it, its somewhat of an libel especially using it in the context to drive business.

    I still find it a bit fascinating as to how jar has still doubled tripled, at this quintupled down on all of this. Sunk-cost fallacy?

  • forestforest Member
    edited April 7

    @alligatoraxe said:
    Tbh, if wyvern had thicker skin, like forest, we wouldn't be here and this would not have escalated

    The same could be said about jar's attack sale, which started it all. It was in bad taste, and just because I found it funny doesn't mean everyone else who was a target should have to.

    Unless there is evidence that WyvernCo's goal was anything more than to get the attack sale removed, the argument that jar was somehow allowed to dox/attempt to dox in retaliation falls flat.

  • @whynotlearn said:
    I still find it a bit fascinating as to how jar has still doubled tripled, at this quintupled down on all of this. Sunk-cost fallacy?

    So has wyvern

  • TimRooTimRoo Member
    edited April 7

    @forest said:

    @alligatoraxe said:
    Tbh, if wyvern had thicker skin, like forest, we wouldn't be here and this would not have escalated

    The same could be said about jar's attack sale, which started it all. It was in bad taste, and just because I found it funny doesn't mean everyone else who was a target would have.

    You two following Jar from thread to thread preceded the sale.

    Thanked by 2skorous ralf
  • forestforest Member
    edited April 7

    @TimRoo said:

    @forest said:

    @alligatoraxe said:
    Tbh, if wyvern had thicker skin, like forest, we wouldn't be here and this would not have escalated

    The same could be said about jar's attack sale, which started it all. It was in bad taste, and just because I found it funny doesn't mean everyone else who was a target would have.

    You two following Jar from thread to thread pre-dated the sale.

    I followed no one, but I reply if pinged and joined in an argument in one other thread long after it had already started.

  • @alligatoraxe said: So has wyvern

    I guess but one has an email business reputation attached to them and the other is anonymous person for the most part.

    You might dislike or like wyvern, but the fact still remains that Jar has become extremely untrustworthy especially for something as sensitive as Email after this.

  • NyrNyr Community Contributor, Veteran

    @forest said: He tried to shut down the business itself or just get the attack sale removed?

    By his own admission, he contacted PayPal, and he admitted today that he plans to go even further.

    To any sane person, none of this would matter anyway, as most people would just laugh off a situation like that tasteless sale thread instead of escalating into a personal vendetta... "like a psycho".

  • gsea4gsea4 Member

    Thanked by 1WyvernCo
  • alligatoraxealligatoraxe Member
    edited April 7

    @whynotlearn said:

    @alligatoraxe said: So has wyvern

    I guess but one has an email business reputation attached to them and the other is anonymous person for the most part.

    You might dislike or like wyvern, but the fact still remains that Jar has become extremely untrustworthy especially for something as sensitive as Email after this.

    I disagree. Most people here are hobbyists chasing the cheapest buck and live off drama. Jar has a pretty darn respectable reputation on getting your email where it needs to go and won't disappear overnight because they're run by a 16 year old in their bedroom. Just don't play stupid games to win stupid prizes. Jar doesn't hide who he is, and that transparency will attract the right audience. You already know who you're dealing with.

    Thanked by 1LTC
  • WyvernCoWyvernCo Member

    @TimRoo said:

    @forest said:

    @alligatoraxe said:
    Tbh, if wyvern had thicker skin, like forest, we wouldn't be here and this would not have escalated

    The same could be said about jar's attack sale, which started it all. It was in bad taste, and just because I found it funny doesn't mean everyone else who was a target would have.

    You two following Jar from thread to thread preceded the sale.

    As if posting criticism on a forum justified an attack sale or a firing attempt.

    Thanked by 1buzzyLET
  • forestforest Member
    edited April 7

    @Nyr said: To any sane person, none of this would matter anyway, as most people would just laugh off a situation like that tasteless sale thread instead of escalating into a personal vendetta... "like a psycho".

    I laughed off the situation, but I can completely understand that others wouldn't. At the end of the day, someone in a far more privileged situation used their high visibility to attack another person, and all that person tried to do was shut down that attack. The first person then tried to dox them and ended up trying to get the wrong person fired.

    I can't say whether or not WyvernCo overreacted because I don't know exactly how he felt, but let's remind ourselves that one person is a random on the internet who was attacked and the other is a medium-sized provider.

    Were both in the wrong? Maybe. But I consider an attack ad to be more serious than reporting said attack ad.

    Thanked by 2WyvernCo buzzyLET
  • emghemgh Member, Megathread Squad

    it takes two to tango let's not pretend like anyone is 100% at fault in every single way

  • WyvernCoWyvernCo Member

    Yeah, I was pretty upset about his attack sale.

    Thanked by 1buzzyLET
  • stable_geniusstable_genius Member
    edited April 7

    @Nyr said:

    @forest said: I had nothing to do with that, but I wouldn't be surprised if jar's actions did violate Hetzner's ToS.

    So what?

    @WyvernCo was hurt so badly by a thread title in a forum that he tried to shut a small business which feeds a family.

    How is that proportionate? The ToS matter is almost irrelevant to the discussion.

    Many young dealers sell drugs to feed their families, should I feel bad trying to shut their businesses?

    Thanked by 2WyvernCo buzzyLET
  • whynotlearnwhynotlearn Member
    edited April 7

    @alligatoraxe said: I disagree. Most people here are hobbyists chasing the cheapest buck and live off drama. Jar has a pretty darn respectable reputation on getting your email where it needs to go and won't disappear overnight because they're run by a 16 year old in their bedroom. Jar as a person is different than the business he runs. Just don't play stupid games to win stupid prizes.

    I understand your opinion and respect it as-is but I also respectfully disagree, my friend.

    One simply cannot fundamentally separate jar and his service because of how intertwined they are and how fragile trust is. Maybe I consider E-mail to be even more secure but I genuinely don't wish for my mail to be run in such fashion in the sense by someone who may have sadly tried to dox/fire someone else because of internet and all the drama that preceeded. I wish for my E-mail provider to be a bit more cool-headed.

    MXRoute used to be awesome but the trustpilot review still impacts MXRoute. I had made a meme sometime ago let me reference it again. I am sad that a previously good service has been thrown sadly because of the way jar handled things.

    Thanked by 1WyvernCo
  • forestforest Member
    edited April 7

    @emgh said:
    it takes two to tango let's not pretend like anyone is 100% at fault in every single way

    I agree, but I feel that some actions are more deserving of criticism than others.

    Sure, this could have been handled better on all sides, but Jar overreacted to criticism by using his position as a provider to amplify an attack and, when WyvernCo tried to get the attack taken down, Jar ended up trying to dox him and didn't even get the right guy. "But WyvernCo overreacted", even if true, does not excuse Jar's behavior.

    Thanked by 2whynotlearn buzzyLET
  • @emgh said:

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @whynotlearn said: with a chill guy provider

    Emmm, who is chill guy provider, please?

    @Alyx is fairly chill I'd say

    There are a lot of chill guy providers in my books. Too many to list.

  • NyrNyr Community Contributor, Veteran

    @stable_genius said: Many young dealers sell drugs to feed their families, should I feel bad trying to shut their businesses.

    Nah drugs are bad man

  • emghemgh Member, Megathread Squad

    @forest said: and didn't even get the right guy

    this isn't confirmed to be fair

    Thanked by 1alligatoraxe
  • @MaxTakeba said:

    @emgh said:

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @whynotlearn said: with a chill guy provider

    Emmm, who is chill guy provider, please?

    @Alyx is fairly chill I'd say

    There are a lot of chill guy providers in my books. Too many to list.

    List first three.

  • forestforest Member
    edited April 7

    @emgh said:

    @forest said: and didn't even get the right guy

    this isn't confirmed to be fair

    I don't think it matters whether or not he succeeded. He still tried. But true.

    Thanked by 1emgh
  • forestforest Member

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @MaxTakeba said:

    @emgh said:

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @whynotlearn said: with a chill guy provider

    Emmm, who is chill guy provider, please?

    @Alyx is fairly chill I'd say

    There are a lot of chill guy providers in my books. Too many to list.

    List first three.

    1. Aluy
    2. Aluy
    3. Aluy

    He's a really chill guy.

    Thanked by 1rpqu
  • @JohnFilch123 said:

    @MaxTakeba said:

    @emgh said:

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @whynotlearn said: with a chill guy provider

    Emmm, who is chill guy provider, please?

    @Alyx is fairly chill I'd say

    There are a lot of chill guy providers in my books. Too many to list.

    List first three.

    You can look at my top 3 in the provider poll https://lowendtalk.com/discussion/comment/4757564/#Comment_4757564

    Thanked by 1forest
  • @emgh said:

    @forest said: and didn't even get the right guy

    this isn't confirmed to be fair

    I find jar's "shoot first ask questions later" stance a bit mildly troubling, just a bit.

  • What a great day for the unemployed

  • forestforest Member
    edited April 7

    @stable_genius said:

    @emgh said:

    @forest said: and didn't even get the right guy

    this isn't confirmed to be fair

    I find jar's "shoot first ask questions later" stance a bit mildly troubling, just a bit.

    A lot of people seem to have similar stories when interacting with him. It sucks because I've heard his service is well-run and stable. Interestingly, this kind of behavior is very common in the information security industry. Often the smartest people are the hardest to work with.

    Thanked by 1WyvernCo
  • @CyberneticTitan said:
    What a great day for the unemployed

    Feeling happy huh? No wonder another gooning day, you make so many people jealous.

    How long will it last?

  • JosephFJosephF Member
    edited April 7

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @whynotlearn said:

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @whynotlearn said: with a chill guy provider

    Emmm, who is chill guy provider, please?

    @TNAHosting , the guy is chill af, I had accidentally messed up a payment to them as well when I had sent them money after the invoice 15 min had expired (something similar but not similar to my pulsedmedia situation but this isn't about that and lets not make it about that, my friend) and within just 2 hours that one-person shop responded and gave me my servers and then when I asked the next day to open up a port, they answered to my query within 2 minutes (I am not kidding)

    Their 7$ deal is a bit constrained at 512mb ram though but I find it wholesome and I am running a minimalist golang mail server on them

    I am just impressed by them but I wish to gatekeep them because they are really cool xD.

    Obviously I was a bit panicked within that 2 hours too when my payment was stuck-ish but man, It really gave me so much breeze talking to a human and they fixed the problem really quickly (in my opinion, as fast as they can/could) as they were their own payment provider running the bitcoin payment processing themselves

    TLDR: Chill guy @TNAHosting appreciation post :-) Overall one of the best things I have bought. I wish they can expand to storage boxes actually but dedirock is also a good provider for storage and atleast their human support even within just saying hi to them on LET is pretty chill.

    This is slighty different to mxroute. I am more curious about direct alternatives to mxroute. Preferable non US.

    There are no direct alternatives (same type of service) to MXRoute matching both the quality and price point. None.

  • forestforest Member
    edited April 7

    @JosephF said:

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @whynotlearn said:

    @JohnFilch123 said:

    @whynotlearn said: with a chill guy provider

    Emmm, who is chill guy provider, please?

    @TNAHosting , the guy is chill af, I had accidentally messed up a payment to them as well when I had sent them money after the invoice 15 min had expired (something similar but not similar to my pulsedmedia situation but this isn't about that and lets not make it about that, my friend) and within just 2 hours that one-person shop responded and gave me my servers and then when I asked the next day to open up a port, they answered to my query within 2 minutes (I am not kidding)

    Their 7$ deal is a bit constrained at 512mb ram though but I find it wholesome and I am running a minimalist golang mail server on them

    I am just impressed by them but I wish to gatekeep them because they are really cool xD.

    Obviously I was a bit panicked within that 2 hours too when my payment was stuck-ish but man, It really gave me so much breeze talking to a human and they fixed the problem really quickly (in my opinion, as fast as they can/could) as they were their own payment provider running the bitcoin payment processing themselves

    TLDR: Chill guy @TNAHosting appreciation post :-) Overall one of the best things I have bought. I wish they can expand to storage boxes actually but dedirock is also a good provider for storage and atleast their human support even within just saying hi to them on LET is pretty chill.

    This is slighty different to mxroute. I am more curious about direct alternatives to mxroute. Preferable non US.

    There are no direct alternatives (same type of service) to MXRoute matching both the quality and price point. None.

    I use autistici.org for non-business activities, but, like Riseup, you have to agree with their political stance and not use their service for commercial activities. But they're solid and have been around for something like 15+ years.

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