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  • @Nanja said: Seriously, this watchlist that watches every cent I spend is bothering me a lot.

    There's no such thing. Just relax and spend your hard earned money with the others however you wish.

    Thanked by 1PulsedMedia
  • jsgjsg Member, Resident Benchmarker

    @Nanja

    Sorry if this sounds harsh, I feel for you and seriously wish it went differently.

    From what I see that's a classical case of someone getting desperate and very soon entering panic mode. Bad approach.

    • From what I know @PulsedMedia is a fine provider and much about honesty, both as in not playing stupid games, openly admitting errors (e.g. typos), as well as in "do not play stupid games with us!"
    • refund to balance or to your bank (or whatever) account - what's the fuss about? You wanted anyway to buy another PulsedMedia product.
    • Think twice before even thinking about a chargeback! And then sleep a night over it and think again before doing it. And: Never threaten with a chargeback! Doing that basically boils down to you accusing a provider of having defrauded you.
    • Always, at least as the first avenue, use the most private approach, e.g. a PM here on LET or a providers ticket system. Why? Reputation is important for (almost) every business. Pulling something to the public arena risks to be perceived as an attack on their reputation. If at all, do that only as a last resort.

    But I have good news too: I think you got something very wrong wrt "10 years no purchases in Europe". If PulsedMedia were p#ssed off enough by your actions they would have put the case on one (or more) of the fraud protection sites, but it seems all they did was to decide that they and only they didn't want your business for 10 years.

    Here is what I'd tell you if I were a friend of yours and you asked me. I'd say "Apologize to PulsedMedia - publicly! You pulled the whole thing in the public arena and so you should apologize publicly". I'm not sure that an apology can bring PulsedMedia to go softer on you (e.g. not 10 years but only 3) but it can do good for yourself because it would indicate that you acted like an idiot but had no ill intent.

    Thanked by 1PulsedMedia
  • @jsg said:
    @Nanja

    Sorry if this sounds harsh, I feel for you and seriously wish it went differently.

    From what I see that's a classical case of someone getting desperate and very soon entering panic mode. Bad approach.

    • From what I know @PulsedMedia is a fine provider and much about honesty, both as in not playing stupid games, openly admitting errors (e.g. typos), as well as in "do not play stupid games with us!"
    • refund to balance or to your bank (or whatever) account - what's the fuss about? You wanted anyway to buy another PulsedMedia product.
    • Think twice before even thinking about a chargeback! And then sleep a night over it and think again before doing it. And: Never threaten with a chargeback! Doing that basically boils down to you accusing a provider of having defrauded you.
    • Always, at least as the first avenue, use the most private approach, e.g. a PM here on LET or a providers ticket system. Why? Reputation is important for (almost) every business. Pulling something to the public arena risks to be perceived as an attack on their reputation. If at all, do that only as a last resort.

    But I have good news too: I think you got something very wrong wrt "10 years no purchases in Europe". If PulsedMedia were p#ssed off enough by your actions they would have put the case on one (or more) of the fraud protection sites, but it seems all they did was to decide that they and only they didn't want your business for 10 years.

    Here is what I'd tell you if I were a friend of yours and you asked me. I'd say "Apologize to PulsedMedia - publicly! You pulled the whole thing in the public arena and so you should apologize publicly". I'm not sure that an apology can bring PulsedMedia to go softer on you (e.g. not 10 years but only 3) but it can do good for yourself because it would indicate that you acted like an idiot but had no ill intent.

    Thank you for this,
    but apologies are left on deaf ears.

    Once I mentioned chargeback, I got blanked out.

    I really am sorry for everything, like those previous messages have said.

  • gbzret4dgbzret4d Member
    edited September 2023

    @emgh said:

    @Nanja said: In the ticket part, they respond to me this. "the links were wrong on the thread. refund to credit?"

    I was not sure if Pulsedmedia had a refund policy or if all sales were final...

    The "refund to credit" part was not a complete sentence, I was not sure about the refund policy, so I asked... Do you want me to chargeback?

    This is the problem though, they're right - you threatened them. There was zero reason to. Most companies try to get away with account credit, you should have just said "No, I'd prefer a refund to my original payment method, thank you"

    pulsed media is an european company as far as i know and you have to refund to the same method your customer paid for the items.

    Pulsed Media is a lowend provider with IMO not a good support and stupid bandwith rules.

  • DPDP Administrator, The Domain Guy

    @Nanja said: I really am sorry for everything, like those previous messages have said.

    For what it's worth, even when this has nothing to do with me, I sincerely accept your apology ✌️

  • JabJabJabJab Member
    edited September 2023

    @gbzret4d said: pulsed media is an european company as far as i know and you have to refund to the same method your customer paid for the items.

    I don't think anyone ever questioned the refund part?

    OP wanted to buy something else from that provider and he was just offered (I would assume) refund to credit to make everyone else life easier - no waiting time for money to arrive back, no need to pay again - just use website credit. Seems like simpler (and cheaper for provider :D) solution that works for everyone.

    But then he went with his chargeback and it all went down the drain.

    Thanked by 1PulsedMedia
  • At the end of the day there wasn't chargeback at all, just some little misunderstanding and some people here create all that fuss for nothing.

    @Nanja you can sleep peacefully. Just forget about all this, spend your money with other host however you want and enjoy your life.

  • emghemgh Member, Megathread Squad
    edited September 2023

    @gbzret4d said:

    @emgh said:

    @Nanja said: In the ticket part, they respond to me this. "the links were wrong on the thread. refund to credit?"

    I was not sure if Pulsedmedia had a refund policy or if all sales were final...

    The "refund to credit" part was not a complete sentence, I was not sure about the refund policy, so I asked... Do you want me to chargeback?

    This is the problem though, they're right - you threatened them. There was zero reason to. Most companies try to get away with account credit, you should have just said "No, I'd prefer a refund to my original payment method, thank you"

    pulsed media is an european company as far as i know and you have to refund to the same method your customer paid for the items.

    Nope, they can ask if account credit is fine first. No law against that.

    Also, there’s a bunch of exceptions in reality when the service could be considered ”used”, for example, good luck getting your 14 day refund period for a domain registration (I mean I think some might do it, but it’s not the norm, is it legal? Who knows. Has such a decision been appealed all the way to CVRIA? Probably not.

    Thanked by 1PulsedMedia
  • the provider did you a favor, you'll be less stressed with a better provider that won't agro and work with clients.

  • PulsedMediaPulsedMedia Member, Patron Provider

    Just got notified, after a long day of hauling some datacenter gear.

    (can i link from discord straight? I guess so)

    Cool like the 90s

    Anyone want 2x 30KW dual compressor AC cooling units with water/glycol circulation as the medium? Would leave real cheap, running hours is probably only in the hundreds if not just mere few hours, but they are old AF (~24years).
    Pickup ~45mins from Helsinki Central, PM me :)


    Me vs Wall. Wall was the smarter one! ;)
    Had to kick down this wall to get 2x45kw chillers out of that room. Literally. No, i'm not joking, kicked down this wall myself.

    @jmaxwell said:
    This should’ve ended like this instead.

    “Refund to credit? “
    No, to original payment method.
    “Ok, done”

    This.
    Instead chargeback mentioned, it is immediate ban in almost all cases. OP was refunded immediately and 100% fully.

    I don't know why OP is feeling entitled to my / our time, he's been begging attention and i've been kept notified with his/hers half truth posts (and at quick glance, outright lies, wtf is this watchlist? DMs threatening?) from him elsewhere.

    We have basic rules to protect all our customers, not just the company. One of them is mere mention of chargeback is very likely going to lead to refund and billing profile permanently closed. Especially with new just signed customer, even without any DMs etc.

    "Refund to credit?" -- is something i've never seen personally a customer not to understand, this means refunding to your billing profile credit // account balance, which you can use for future invoice. ie. in this case, re-order the service you wanted originally.

    Yes, there was mistake on the thread, the order links were all pointing to same server. This got immediately fixed.

    @Nanja said: It also says that If I ever spend money in the EU, it refreshes the time I have to wait for my profile to be good again in 10 years.
    If I spend money in the National areas, it refreshes 3 years that I spend money.

    Either @Nanja himself has very high issues understanding basic English, or ... You judge, this is our standard billing profile closed message:

    Hi,
    
     Your billing profile has now been closed.
    This should be the last e-mail you receive from us.
    
    If you decide otherwise later on your billing profile can be reactivated until the date data is anonymized. This is a little bit over 10 years from the date of your last invoice or transaction due to the European VAT regulations which requires us to retain data for minimum of 10 years -- the strictest and longest there is. National requirement is only 3 years.
    You can always create a new billing profile as well shall you need one.
    
    Thank You for considering Pulsed Media and We wish you the best!
    

    So here you go Nanja, hope you are satisfied. Hope you are enjoying the attention, and hope all the best for you in your future endeavours.

    Everyone else? Had good popcorn i hope?

    I guess i'll have to read this completely thru in a few moments instead of just glancing over some stuff quickly. Right now freezing in the workshop/garage, been hauling all that gear all day.

    -Aleksi, Pulsed Media founder

    Thanked by 2hades_corps stefeman
  • PulsedMediaPulsedMedia Member, Patron Provider

    @emgh said:
    MAXMIND
    FRAUDLABS
    FRAUDRECORD

    Sorry, forgot the name of it, there's a module where providers share reports of clients with each other

    Fraudrecord i thought was pretty much abandoned by everyone at this point?

    @marian said:
    I never heard about this penalty list and from my point of view seems to be a false statement. Maybe any other provider with WHMCS experience could confirm this.

    It is. He must be referring to the billing profile which cannot be anonymized before 10 years is full due to accounting laws, it only governs us and our bookkeeping, EU directives say that we have to be able to show the full billing data for 10 years after ending fiscal year.

    Must be this bit:

    @PulsedMedia said: This is a little bit over 10 years from the date of your last invoice or transaction due to the European VAT regulations which requires us to retain data for minimum of 10 years -- the strictest and longest there is. National requirement is only 3 years.

    Specifically: ... requires us to retain ...

    @DP said: Personally, I wouldn't classify this as a "language barrier" because your written English seems fine.

    His claims somewhere else was that we or i personally have the language barrier issue, well at least that's what someone stated to me.

    @jmaxwell said:

    @marian said:
    I wonder how it fits in with their privacy policy: https://wiki.pulsedmedia.com/index.php/Pulsed_Media_Privacy_Policy

    The moment you even mention “chargeback”, all such policies and ethics are thrown out of the window. You are officially an “excommunicado”

    Yea one of those magic words, like "lawyer" is. Infact, it's such a magic word that i heard someone refer to their lawyer as "advisor" :D But everyone in the convo knew he was talking about a lawyer since it was legalese we were talking about and contract law.

    @JeDaYoshi said:
    Point is, based on the response of the ticket, you don't seem to be in trouble. You can order from other providers just as fine since they didn't mention that they added you to any fraud records, just that they've disabled your profile on WHMCS, but data will be removed in ~10 years, starting from your last invoice with Pulsed Media, which by then you can order a new service with them, unless they decide to revert this decision.

    It should not affect you, since they are monitoring your transactions with other providers.

    @PulsedMedia should be able to clarify this if they want to.

    @JeDaYoshi said:
    Reading the response again, it seems to hint that "You can order with this account in ~10 years once this information has been removed, or you can create a new account already if you want to." Not sure if I'm understanding that right as it doesn't make much sense.

    That canned response is actually meant for those who requested, should make another one for those who we closed the account because of things like .. uh oh, chargeback etc.

    Yes, it only affects orders from us, nothing else. We have to retain billing info for accounting for 10 years, or we get in so deep trouble no amount of alien **** probe memes could cope with! :O :O

    @Nanja said:
    Sorry, earlier I said I was disabled and can't leave house and only play with servers because of it.

    My disability affects my communication. I live in the US, it's just my brain process information wrong sometimes.

    Sometimes, I can't to talk properly, it all depends.

    If this is true, then you know this and should practice some self restraint and re-read things, or even have a thing like ChatGPT summarize stuff for you when it's off importance for you in any way, you can ask ChatGPT questions etc. and you can even put this in context and it might be able to provide answers which tries to clarify points even further.

    @Shamli said: Chargeback add cost to provider by the payment processor...their account with payment processor might even be suspended...

    With paypal, experience tells it can be absurdly costly. They might take your money 3x, keep it for a year, and then charge you a lot of money to handle the chargeback. Over decade ago we had someone purchase 2 servers like 250€ a month, pay 3 months upfront, then chargeback 6 months. That was a tricky situation, considering we were still 100% on rented/leased servers, barely anything to our name. This was before our first own datacenter, so '11-'12, we were only 1-2 years old at that point, and if people have read the interview // following our story -> we were completely flat out broke at those times (PM was started with 20€ loan! No, i could not even afford WHMCS license at the time, more than 13yrs ago!)

    @DP said:
    Now I'm curious about the "harassing staff" part.

    Since you no longer have access to your account and you can't share the communication exchanges you had, maybe @PulsedMedia can shed some light on this :smiley:

    Just unsolicited DM, then immediately a ticket etc. a general sense that his needs should trump anything and absolutely everything was perceived. I am "slightly" trigger happy when i unknown person acts entitled to my time personally, i do admit that. But that had nothing to do with closing billing profile, just limited patience. Easy enough to click ignore button.

    The reason i get easily triggered by this is that we have tens of thousands of customers, and people just bypassing ticketing and thinking they are entitled to my personal time directly? I magine if just 1% of our customers do that monthly! I would be completely inundated with DMs for basic support requests!
    Not only that, but it's way more difficult to handle a support request like that because you have zero access to data, have to search data, spend time waiting for responses for basic info, and it is outright insulting to our customers who use the ticketing system and are not getting personal concierge level support from the highest level in the company, and probably (typically DM guy) not spending even 10€ a month, while there are customers who might spend 1800€ for one server, and they are waiting for tickets being handled just like everyone else. But this (generally, not saying Nanja is) 5-10€, or perhaps not even customer, thinks he is entitled to 100% of my focus personally, at the time of his choosing?

    That's why i get triggered. I know i am being a bit harsh too. There's just not enough my attention to go around and operate the business as a whole at the same time. Not a chance i can attend to everyone's needs personally one on one.

    @rcy026 said:
    I think the problem here is that you are not aware what "chargeback" actually means.
    Asking a provider if they want you to do a chargeback is like asking someone "do you want me to shoot you in the face with a gun?". It does not matter how politely you ask it, it will still be considered a threat.

    Just to clearify, chargeback does not just mean "put the money back". Chargeback means that you are accusing the provider of not delivering what they promised and you demand your money back. You are basically telling the payment processor that you have been scammed by the provider and that they should withdraw the payment. The provider will be fined and get a negative score with the payment processor.

    Dang! You deserve a cookie! That's the funniest metaphor i've seen so far for this, "shoot you in the face" LOL :D

    Yeap that's what happens on the backend, and i am extremely happy to say that we've not had a chargeback in really long time. It is essentially telling the vendor is a scammer.

    Thanked by 2stefeman Shamli
  • PulsedMediaPulsedMedia Member, Patron Provider

    @jsg said: Always, at least as the first avenue, use the most private approach, e.g. a PM here on LET or a providers ticket system. Why? Reputation is important for (almost) every business. Pulling something to the public arena risks to be perceived as an attack on their reputation. If at all, do that only as a last resort.

    I would like to add to this that while good guidance in going private, but the private should be normal support channel primary. Further, going LET private message has same issue as any other non official channel -> no access to data, can't do anything at all than maybe answer some basic non-account specific questions.

    Getting a private message anywhere always have some things in common: No authentication of any sort, even the least bit, and no access to any account/service information what-so-ever.

    That's part of the reason why i am so harsh when it comes to that kind of contacts. Can't help anyone that way :/

    Thanked by 1jsg
  • stefemanstefeman Member
    edited September 2023

    @Nanja said:

    @emgh said:
    MAXMIND
    FRAUDLABS
    FRAUDRECORD

    Sorry, forgot the name of it, there's a module where providers share reports of clients with each other

    Thanks, looking up how to search myself on this.
    Over dumb stuff.

    PM me your email and I send you the info.

    I wonder too what you actually did lol.

  • @PulsedMedia said:
    Just got notified, after a long day of hauling some datacenter gear.

    (can i link from discord straight? I guess so)

    Cool like the 90s

    Anyone want 2x 30KW dual compressor AC cooling units with water/glycol circulation as the medium? Would leave real cheap, running hours is probably only in the hundreds if not just mere few hours, but they are old AF (~24years).
    Pickup ~45mins from Helsinki Central, PM me :)


    Me vs Wall. Wall was the smarter one! ;)
    Had to kick down this wall to get 2x45kw chillers out of that room. Literally. No, i'm not joking, kicked down this wall myself.

    @jmaxwell said:
    This should’ve ended like this instead.

    “Refund to credit? “
    No, to original payment method.
    “Ok, done”

    This.
    Instead chargeback mentioned, it is immediate ban in almost all cases. OP was refunded immediately and 100% fully.

    I don't know why OP is feeling entitled to my / our time, he's been begging attention and i've been kept notified with his/hers half truth posts (and at quick glance, outright lies, wtf is this watchlist? DMs threatening?) from him elsewhere.

    We have basic rules to protect all our customers, not just the company. One of them is mere mention of chargeback is very likely going to lead to refund and billing profile permanently closed. Especially with new just signed customer, even without any DMs etc.

    "Refund to credit?" -- is something i've never seen personally a customer not to understand, this means refunding to your billing profile credit // account balance, which you can use for future invoice. ie. in this case, re-order the service you wanted originally.

    Yes, there was mistake on the thread, the order links were all pointing to same server. This got immediately fixed.

    @Nanja said: It also says that If I ever spend money in the EU, it refreshes the time I have to wait for my profile to be good again in 10 years.
    If I spend money in the National areas, it refreshes 3 years that I spend money.

    Either @Nanja himself has very high issues understanding basic English, or ... You judge, this is our standard billing profile closed message:

    Hi,
    
     Your billing profile has now been closed.
    This should be the last e-mail you receive from us.
    
    If you decide otherwise later on your billing profile can be reactivated until the date data is anonymized. This is a little bit over 10 years from the date of your last invoice or transaction due to the European VAT regulations which requires us to retain data for minimum of 10 years -- the strictest and longest there is. National requirement is only 3 years.
    You can always create a new billing profile as well shall you need one.
    
    Thank You for considering Pulsed Media and We wish you the best!
    

    So here you go Nanja, hope you are satisfied. Hope you are enjoying the attention, and hope all the best for you in your future endeavours.

    Everyone else? Had good popcorn i hope?

    I guess i'll have to read this completely thru in a few moments instead of just glancing over some stuff quickly. Right now freezing in the workshop/garage, been hauling all that gear all day.

    -Aleksi, Pulsed Media founder

    Damn nice! Update us when you build the datacenter in separate thread. Datacenter build log would be awesome to follow.

  • PulsedMediaPulsedMedia Member, Patron Provider

    @stefeman said:

    @PulsedMedia said:
    Just got notified, after a long day of hauling some datacenter gear.

    (can i link from discord straight? I guess so)

    Cool like the 90s

    Anyone want 2x 30KW dual compressor AC cooling units with water/glycol circulation as the medium? Would leave real cheap, running hours is probably only in the hundreds if not just mere few hours, but they are old AF (~24years).
    Pickup ~45mins from Helsinki Central, PM me :)


    Me vs Wall. Wall was the smarter one! ;)
    Had to kick down this wall to get 2x45kw chillers out of that room. Literally. No, i'm not joking, kicked down this wall myself.

    >

    Damn nice! Update us when you build the datacenter in separate thread. Datacenter build log would be awesome to follow.

    Hmm, good idea. I'll try to keep this in mind. Would make a epic blog post series, just like the MD development process and why they are kinda friggin' special, a decade in the making!
    It's all a bit in limbo right now for DC build tho. Energy crisis fscked up all our original plans, and other shenanigans from landlord when we finally started a build and now have to look for another location.

    We even considered buying a 3600m2 building next to Telia HDC tho ! :O But that's a bit too much for us to handle right now i think, way too many sidequests available! Had a completely empty floor with office rooms+conference room+kitchen etc etc, would make a wicked nerd cave! ;) But a tad expensive to buy entire 3story+cellar building because of that and pure "me want, me want!" :D It's the OpEx and the unknown unknowns being the biggest issues.

    It's a shit ton harder to build a DC than people think tho, it's not just "get a warehouse, plug some power, fiber and AC in there!". Transformer(s), underground piping, proximity to interesting places, building quality, ceiling height, cabling distance, zoning/building code for cooling installations (permits required?), contracts etc etc.

    Going to check a underground place tomorrow morning :)

  • stefemanstefeman Member
    edited September 2023

    omg the permits.. Finland is bureaucracy hell when it comes to building permits and what type of business you can do in which type of buildings, and what kind of remodeling can be done, or even what kind of repairs can be done if the street or area is considered important, or if the building has any kind of history (corporate/national/personal), or if the overall landscape requires that the current situation stays lol.

  • PulsedMediaPulsedMedia Member, Patron Provider

    @stefeman said:
    omg the permits.. Finland is bureaucracy hell when it comes to building permits and what type of business you can do in which type of buildings, and what kind of remodeling can be done, or even what kind of repairs can be done if the street or area is considered important, or if the building has any kind of history (corporate/national/personal), or if the overall landscape requires that the current situation stays lol.

    This!

    Our DC is in protected building, which means we have extremely limited cooling since nothing visually to outside can change. Then again, it also ensures we still got it, because all the other buildings in the area are being demolished to put in crammed condos in place ...

    Never mind the "rental land" scam Helsinki is running. and the communism style socialization of land here and there, you don't really own the plot of land even if "you own it". One day the city may just decide, nawh this land rental agreement is over, get your structure of there were taking the parcel. Or the county decides "nawh, we need this land, here is your peanuts as compensation for taking your land"

  • @PulsedMedia said: The reason i get easily triggered by this is that we have tens of thousands of customers, and people just bypassing ticketing and thinking they are entitled to my personal time directly? I magine if just 1% of our customers do that monthly! I would be completely inundated with DMs for basic support requests!
    Not only that, but it's way more difficult to handle a support request like that because you have zero access to data, have to search data, spend time waiting for responses for basic info, and it is outright insulting to our customers who use the ticketing system and are not getting personal concierge level support from the highest level in the company, and probably (typically DM guy) not spending even 10€ a month, while there are customers who might spend 1800€ for one server, and they are waiting for tickets being handled just like everyone else. But this (generally, not saying Nanja is) 5-10€, or perhaps not even customer, thinks he is entitled to 100% of my focus personally, at the time of his choosing?

    I get it. But it's also why most people usually just ignore these PMs and messages and only respond via support ticket. It's basically wanting professional access to your whereas your time can be better spent on other matters.

    From a purely PR perspective, just ignore from those areas. It takes a little discipline initially but it's easier. We have a ton of recruiters and people trying to connect to us or talk to us via various professional or non-professional avenues. We only respond if/when we want to.

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